Am I toned? Nope.
Do I care? Also nope.
But really, why should I care? Does anyone have an actual legit reason why you have to be toned and slim to wear a swim wear??
Are you comfortable in what you’re wearing? Yes? Then fucking wear it and wear it with pride!
It’s all about how you feel in it rather than how others feel about you wearing it. They can always choose to look else where if they have an issue with it… but they won’t cause you’ll look hot as fuck.
Ok, so you probably don’t feel 100% comfortable wearing it because you’re self conscious AF, but do it anyway. You’ll feel so much better for it.
I know that tiny critical voice in your head will be telling you they’re staring and thinking horrible things but the chances are they’re thinking of anything but what you’re wearing.
It may take a while but confidence is like a muscle, the more you use it the stronger it gets.
No matter your gender, no matter your size, you are entitled to feel comfortable at the beach or at the pool.
In fact, you are entitled to sit on the beach in your swim wear eating a giant ice cream burrito (they’re a real thing, they’re amazing) and enjoying life!
So scrap the diets, continue eating the pizza, the donuts and anything else that brings you joy and if you want to tone up, do it because you want to, not because others tell you you must in order to be attractive.
I guess this has kind of turned in to a pep talk but I’m cool with that. If you need one, here it is, this is your pep talk… Now, go out and do the thing you were scared of.
Love you babe!